First of all, criticalne breaks up more relatio hi , than anything else. And that criticalne is usually over the children or money!
Criticalne can be seen in eyes that slant down.
They notice anything that is out of line and can ot problems and the flaws. Yes, they are naggers, faultfinders. They cause fear in other people. They make people afraid of them.
Your son asks you a question. What does agile mean? And right away you tell him his shoe is untied, or his shirt is dirty, or his hair is not combed, and has dandruf. You notice things that are wrong.
Now you have a choice on how you re onded to your son. That is the negative choice.
The positive use of being critical is that you see o ortunities and advantages in situatio . You know what needs to be done. I tead of critizing your son, ouse, or anyone; only use your criticalne when you are paid for it. Keep your criticalne to yourself, until needed. State the criticism as a statement or suggestion.
Son, agile mea flexible. Thanks for asking. And dont forget to tie your shoe, comb hair.
The critical ouse should resist trying to remake partner. Focus on the good in everything first even with children. The critical child must be made to understand the u olicited criticism will turn people off.
What should you do when you are around someone who is critical?
1 - Get there advice when you need it. They will be glad to give it.
2 - Dont be hurt by u olicited criticism. Thats the way they are. It has nothing to do with whether they like you are not.
3 - Try to take care of things that involve them in order to avoid their criticism.
Now when you see someone with eyes that slant down, you know how they may re ond to you, and you to them. Try it and see how you do.
Criticalne is just one personality trait covered in 19 Ti
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