If you find yourself in a difficult situation, don't continue doing what you are doing. Although, it might seem like simple advice that should be common se e, remember common se e i 't. It is based on life experience. If we haven't had the experience, we might not know how to handle it. We may be under the illusion that if we keep on doing what we are doing things will change. They won't. Doing the same thing and expecting things to be different is the definition of i anity. If you are not getting the results you want, it is because you are not doing the right actio . Stop doing what you are doing and do something else, anything else. Just remember, if you are in a hole, the best thing to do is stop digging and create a plan for getting out of the hole.
When life i 't going our way, the first thing to look at is our actio . Stop and ask yourself what you are doing to create the situation. It might seem like you are an i ocent victim, but the truth is there are very few i ocent victims. Most of us, when given the o ortunity, can figure out what part we are playing in creating what we don't want in our lives. It can be something like staying in a job we hate, or letting a friend treat us poorly, or not standing up for ourselves. More than likely we are doing something or allowing something to ha en that i 't serving us. Stop! Give yourself the o ortunity to take a few ste back from the situation and acce what is really going on. If you can't do this on your own, seek help from a profe ional or trusted friend. Often, others can see what i 't working in our lives and what the cause is better than we can. Once you figure out what you need to do differently, do it. Knowing what to change and not changing it doe 't help you.
Where are you continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole? Perha you continue to over end creating more and more credit card debt or perha you are not taking the ste that will enable you to seek a better job. Whatever you are doing that is creating a deep hole, stop, decide what actio you are doing that contribute to the situation and change it. Awarene is the first step. The next step is to take action.
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Coach Lee is a Certified Master Coach ecializing in working with busine owners and profe ionals in being more profitable and productive while staying sane and balanced. Coach Lee is the publisher of the award wi ing e-zine, 365 Days of Coaching, because life ha e every day. Visit Coach Lee at her we ites http://coachlee.com and http://www.365daysofcoaching.com. True Direction, Inc. Copyright
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